Kay Warren 'weeping' at 'horrible suffering' as adoptive parents forced to relinquish custody

by Stoyan Zaimov , Christian Post Contributor |

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Saddleback Church co-founder Kay Warren is weeping over a story of Illinois foster parents being forced to give back their child in order to get him mental health help.

"Weeping. Horrible suffering for some of our nation's most vulnerable children," Warren wrote on Twitter last week.

"Untenable choices for loving, committed parents. Which lawmakers will right this wrong?" she asked.

The story, published in NPR last week, concerns Illinois parents Toni and Jim Hoy, who adopted their son, Daniel, through the foster care system when he was a toddler.

Daniel, who is now 24, needed severe mental health treatment in 2007, however, forcing the Hoys to give up parental custody to the state, as they could not pay the $100,000 a year treatment required.

Jim Hoy explained that even though the family had private insurance, and Daniel had Medicaid coverage, neither wanted to pay for the treatments. The couple had no choice but to send their child back into the foster care system, where the child welfare agency would be obligated to pay for the services.

"To this day, its the most gut-wrenching thing I've ever had to do in my life," the father said, recalling having to take 12-year-old Daniel to the hospital and declare that they were legally abandoning him.

"I was crying terribly. But it was the only way we figured we could keep the family safe," he said.

NPR noted that two-thirds of states do not keep records of how many families are forced into giving up custody for children to get mental health services. A Government Accountability Office study found that in 2001, over 12,000 families in 19 states had to take that option, however.

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